Vásquez, MS lpcyour Successful Singles Love Coach - Rate this answer A male reader, anonymous, writes I would say you need to sit him down and talk to him one on one.
Don't count on a hotel night to be "the night".
I have a new girlfriend and everything is good except for us not having sex yet.
Whatever you do, be tactful about.Its either a psychological issue, such as he's nervous, or its a medical issue as.D.He has to be the one who takes the initiative.It's selfish to pressure her and put "your prostitution statistics by country needs" first.If you can't wait, then end things and go find someone willing to jump in the sack with you right away.
You have only known her 3 months and you're moaning around as if you didn't have sex for years.
Remember, you cannot change anyone else's behavior.
I think you need to grow up a bit here.Your timeframe perception obviously differs from hers.Just eliminate the options - has he ever had an erection, is he a virgin, etc.Rate this answer A female reader, chigirl, writes If you aren't having sex yet and you think it's about time then why aren't you talking to your woman about this?If your sex drive is that high you should be rather proficient at getting yourself off.Also, he may have a problem that he's embarassed about.I got a room at a casino/hotel and hopefully it will be "The Night".It will be best for both of you.Rate this answer A male reader, GrimmReality, writes I have to 's not performance anxiety after 5 months.
It's been a failsafe strategy in protecting myself from players who just want to use.
Just be patient and it will happen in time do other sexual things together maybe?
I'm going to ask you to do something difficult, but ultimately better for your own peace of mind: Stop trying to be helpful.